My Territory and My Influence

        My Territory and Influence ( Part 1)

     Maxwell, the only son of Sir Richardson grew up in the southern side of the Africa continent with his parents and other four siblings who were females. Mr Richardson was a primary school teacher and Mrs Richardson was just a petty trader ( she sells domestics items in front of their house). Mr and Mrs Richardson have been married for over 15years, but occurrences never ceased to happen in the family. On several occasions, after working hours, Mr Richardson will return home to his family, but anytime he sees his wife sleeping or haven't prepared anything for himself to eat even if she is sick, he will beat the hell out of her not minding the eye witnesses ( the children and neighbors) and even the health of the wife ( she was asthmatic).
   These occurrences went on like that for years. The wife had no say in the house. The only thing she does was to cook and carry out other domestic work ( Africa women's job so to say). It got to an extent that the children started misbehaving all around the street. An attempt by the wife to correct the children or make suggestions to Mr Richardson will  result in series of beating. The one that gripped Maxwell most was the beating his father gave the mother while shivering on the sick bed because she had refused to cook something for him to eat.
   Maxwell too in an attempt to help his mother in taking care of the house and his siblings while their mother was sick, will always beat his siblings who were females ( just like his father). On an occasion while Maxwell was beating Ella , he mistakenly hit her left eye which resulted in swollen eye and caused her to stay indoor for days. Maxwell continued like this even in the school ( secondary and tertiary institution ), he was fond of bullying other students and he moved on like that in life.
    Here comes a grown-up man in his own family called Mr Maxwell, in the second week of his marriage, he has beaten up his wife like two times because the wife failed to greet him properly. The wife being a barrister wouldn't take the assault and therefore vowed to take legal action against him. He begged that he will not do that again, then the wife forgave me and things were settled. Unfortunately, the one that broke the carmel's back was the incident that happened on a Sunday morning when they were about going to church. Maxwell didn't really like his wife's powder, he told her to go wash it away, but she only cleaned it up and made it lighter. Maxwell was very furious about this and he pounced on his wife and started beating her ( Sunday morning for that matter) , but unfortunately he mistakenly pushed her from the chair to the floor and her head landed on the tiles and she gave up the ghost.
    Maxwell was amazed that ordinary pushing she was pretending to be dead, but reality dawned on him that she was truly dead. He couldn't go to church again, he couldn't bring his wife back to life,he couldn't kill himself too. He remained in the house thinking all through, but unfortunately the church members came after church service and saw the state of things. He then confessed and you know what? He was charged to court for murder.

   Influence,yes influence
    Influence means the ability to take control or have effect on a particular set of people or sphere. Influence is a seed awaiting dynamic manifestation that may be difficult to curtail if not done at the early stages .
    No matter the categorisation you try to give to influence, the two infallible classes are the positivity and negativity of it. Some will say we have neutral influence, listen nothing is neutral in life. Even the neutral wire in running electricity have its own role to play, can you now see that nothing is neutral.
   Note, neutrality is a disease that needs urgent attention. No neutral man attain heights or make waves.

 When it comes to influence, there are two factors responsible for its effect or workings on men and the factors are;

*Internal
  Men have within them the volition to design their world and permit the existence of certain things or not. You can, through your internal values know vwhat you desire and from within determine the course of your life.

*External
  This denote the outer occurrences and happenings we go through and see daily. Whether you like it or not, those occurrences you meet daily have the capacity to influence you. Things happen to gain more effect on the surrounding elements. The factors played out are the biological, social, intellectual factors and so on.

 Note that in every thing that pertain to influence, whether positive or negative, embedded in internal or external factors, YOU HAVE AN OPTION!!!.

Then the option you make determines your living on earth;
    Whether you will actually live your God predetermined life or not.
    Whether you too can choose to influence others positively in your generation or not.
    Whether your personality can be an asset to your generation or not.

                                    Thanks reading!!!

    ANTICIPATE MY TERRITORY AND MY INFLUENCE ( Part2).


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