The Confined Personality (Part 2)

             The Confined Personality (Part 2)

Every object has in it the riches beyond the seen. The trees are products of the seeds. But what if the seeds are not given enough breathing space to show forth their potentials, what would be their lot?. Every man is loaded with riches, but the confinement of his life at a particular season would serve as grave yard for his potentials if not given proper attention. Listen friend, the confiner has the ultimate power to make the confined whatever that pleases it. Therefore, whatever you allow to grip your person is capable of making produces off your life.
Having explored comparison as a confiner in part 1 of this series, join me as we explore the next confiner of personality together.

Another confiner of personality to be unveiled is 

2. The confinement of emotions.

It is a state of a being.
It is the physiological response of a man to every occurrences around him.
It is a feeling that is necessitated by situations around the spheres of a man.

How then can emotion imprison the entirety of a personality?
Apparently, every human on earth do have expectations.
Expectations do land a man in the forum of outcome that could be a disheartening or a joyous one.

When a man's expectation turns out to give a satisfactory result or response, there exist the sense of happiness, satisfaction and gladness.
But whenever the expectation turn out to be otherwise, the sense of anger, bitterness, depression and so on will surely be at the surface response to all occurrences and humans.

Without doubt, expectation of all manners that humans do have launches them into different emotions.
The day you win or get something done satisfactorily, your emotions will trun out positive, but the other day your engagements refuses to give you your desired results, negativity of emotions set in.

Emotion is a system of balancing.
Emotion is a regulator.
Emotions are well mixed mixture for defined outcome.
Emotions are gear wheels.

The power of emotions can not be underestimated, because they do manage the affairs of daily responses.
Life itself at times is not well placed in a balanced condition, but activities and responses helps find a balance for an individual who seek balances.

How do a man enjoy his television set, radio set or even smart phone, if not by tuning to different channels and checking out different packages. 
Life is like that television set or radio set, to fully enjoy it, whenever you are listening to a program and it seem as if you don't like it, you are at liberty to change from such channel because you own your gadget and you decide which channel to tune in to.

How then could emotions imprison a personality?

Get this friend, life occurrences are not static therefore your emotions can not be static too.
Dynamism of occurrences birth differences in mood swing.
An emotion is to be made to live at a particular time and fade out. Nothing lives forever.
Can a tree stand forever without a shaking?. Absolutely no !!!.
Your emotions could serve as grave for your potentials if you refuse to run from one-post emotion.

It is good that you are happy, it is understandable that you are presently depressed or something else. But a stay in a fixed emotional state would stagnate your person.
If a man dwell too much on the emotion of satisfaction gotten on a particular result, he may not be able to see that there is more to his potentials.
Likewise is it with the man who experienced failure in one way or the other, if he sit all alone in the seat of the sense of failure, the sight of success would be far away from him.

Experiences are bound to come your way.
Experiences therefore could either imprison you or make you a free man.
The sense of freedom is not a minor state but a build up of different internal responses to situations.
If you are passing through the untold, your internal responses are important because nobody else can respond for you.

Emotions are like passages.
Passages are not meant for a forever stay or living.
Passages house different things at different time.
No product stays in a production passage forever.
There is always a constant movement of progress in the passages of achievers.
Unreasonable stays at passages is a stay(death) of potentials.

Emotions are not designed by internal chemistry to last forever.
Why then will you decide to make yours last till eternity?
If you make the wrong out of your emotions, your life may end up in a wrong manner.
Emotions are blessings unto you to find regulations for your life.
Therefore regulate your life well.
Never you leave the tuning button of your affairs in a permanent state of an emotion because your living may become bored and your potentials be dormant.

If you are trapped in happiness or depression alone, you may not see further.
Build up a constant tuning system for your balancing.
If an emotion want to trap you down, escape by the way of another emotion.
It is a deadly game for your person and the riches thereof to be locked up in the prison of an emotion.
Set your person free!!!

How do I set my entirety free from emotional prison?

*Firstly, be aware that nothing or no situation last forever.
*Secondly, give weight to your emotion(determine the weight), don't allow the emotion give you its own weight. This can be done by giving constant attention to the value of the  treasures inside of you.
*Finally, hope and opt in for the best experiences you can get from the stones of happenings that life throws at you.




3. Haste

Pursuit of attainment is essential and worthy.
Impetus engaged therein if probed could turn out to be ............

• Stay tuned for the part 3