SELF PROOF
Have you ever wondered why a person prefers to depend on some men and neglect others?, Why someone will prefer to be committed to another and ignore the interest of others?, Have you seen men that can die for a cause?, Have you seen concerned men ?.
Responsibility ! ! !
Responsibility means acceptance and working or commitment to a particular cause. When we say a man is responsible, then we say that he is reliable, dependable and will never render excuses for an action.
It is of no doubt you have seen people saying Mr or Mrs A is responsible or not responsible. Men, children, wives, colleagues, officials, etc have received insults and insulted themselves because of this subject matter. Today a man will say that his wife is not responsible and tomorrow he would say otherwise. What do you think could be the cause of this?. Can a man be responsible forever or for awhile ?. What are the proofs of a responsible being ?. What are the qualities of a responsible man ?.
In checking out these questions above, let's briefly consider the following;
- A responsible man is a man of standardized personality
-.A responsible man is a man of people's concerned
- A responsible man is a maximizer
A man of Standardized Personality
When we say that a person is of standard, we mean that his personality is of great quality. Personality here means the distinct quality of one from another. This put together means, what distinguishes a man that is of high quality from others. How then do you know whether the personality of a man is of standard?. The foundation of this is the thought, pattern, words, actions, inactions and reactions.
A man can easily empty out or pour out himself by the means of the above foundations. If you desire to get the content of a man , listen to his words, study his actions and disposition to matters.
Quality is quality. A man of standard never jokes with the quality of his person, how ?. Instead of raising excuses, complaints, mistakes, emotional disorder, he would rather choose to see the possibilities that could come forth from the so called disorders. You may want to query this that denying the obvious and declaring the invisible could be frustrating and stupid. Yes, I agree with you, but I will not agree with you on the other hand because whosoever truly desire that his personality be of value will be self disciplined enough to work out the necessaries.
A man of people's concern
A responsible man is a man of the people. Being responsible is being burdened with people's welfare. In the daily activities of a man, you could be able to deduce whether he is responsible or not. The life of a responsible man is never his life because the burden he is carrying is his life. An instance is that of a responsible politician whose heart is always with the people.
Daily, men are interacting with themselves and as mentioned above, in order to truly dig out the content of a man, check out his actions. The values of a man in relationship with men are proof of his responsibilities. Responsible men play out integrity, accountability, honesty, trust with men. They are concerned about the state of others.
Being responsible is a whole matter, taking partial responsibility is not really a responsibility that could be valued even though it has its role.
Responsibility is Maximization
Men who are responsible are chance taking fellows. They never slack when chances come their way. Responsibility is laying hold of time and maximizing it. Responsibie men are treasure hunters in the frame of time. They are well organized men. They are men of order. They prioritize their activities and their involvement with men. They never waste their time on frivolities, because they know that their engagements in life determines their outcome. They never participate in activities that have nothing to offer their personalities. They are men of value and so therefore seek value in all they do. They are men of consistency. They dwell on what they know will yield value for them. The word procastination is never in their dictionary. They are men of actions. Why not enroll yourself now because time may not be on your side.
Having examined some essentials of responsible men above, it is important to know that to be responsible is not a day job. Responsibility is a daily work for those who are concerned. Stay responsible!!!
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Tadobo A.S
Sam Thardos Consult
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